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About BDSC: Reflections of A Co-Founder

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Mary Hey, co-founder and first president of Boulder-Dushanbe Sister Cities (1983-1987, Soviet Sister City Project), looks back on the early days of the organization and our relationship with Dushanbe:


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"It was the winter of 1982, and the Cold War was raging. Sophia Stoller and I were introduced in a church basement, and struck up a conversation about the frightening prospect of war with the Soviet Union.

We both actively opposed the arms race, but wasn't there something positive we could do? We found ourselves amazed at how little we actually knew about the United States' mortal enemy, and wondered if perhaps others would also like to know more. We wondered how we could ever manage to meet a real live Soviet citizen.

In February 1983, just one month before President Reagan would call the Soviet Union the "focus of evil in the world," about a dozen like-minded folks met in a city building downtown to talk about what at the time was flat-out impossible: to link Boulder with a sister city in the Soviet Union. It was impossible because five of the six existing such relationships were set up in the 1970s by fiat, by Nixon and Brezhnev. And even if the Soviets were willing to add more cities, which was unlikely, they considered a small city like ours out of the question.

We ignored their rules and began actively pursuing a relationship. I visited the Soviet Embassy in Washington, D.C., several times, we wrote repeated letters to faceless bureaucrats, and finally, having been studiously ignored, simply chose Dushanbe as our city and pursued officials there directly. Several failed attempts later, Boulder scientist Joe Allen made it through the maze and met the mayor of Dushanbe who said, "You people in Boulder are very persistent." We at last knew that we were having some effect.

On my next trip to the mirrored antechamber of the embassy, a Soviet diplomat leafed through my heavy packet of miscellaneous material promoting Boulder, his face awash with boredom. Suddenly he stopped and stared at a particular sheet. "There's a balalaika band in Boulder?" he asked in total amazement.

The next week the embassy sent an update of the rules for establishing sister cities, and the minimum city size now read, "100,000 (or maybe 80,000)."

All along the way, we have produced programs about any aspect of the Soviet Union we have found someone able to discuss. We have showed movies and fed people exotic food and hosted panels of professors and travelers, anyone who could shed light on the vast Soviet Union. In the beginning the audience would become politicized and polarized even talking about food, but gradually people relaxed a bit and we all started to learn. After years, we at last broke through and were able to seal our relationship with Dushanbe in 1987.

Since then, we have received a magnificent teahouse and hosted dozens of visitors and students, and our long labor has borne beautiful fruit.

It is now difficult to conjure the bitter antagonisms that the most banal talk about the Soviet Union could rouse back at the beginning. The arms race, in retrospect, looks a little peculiar--what was it about? As we look to our sister city of Dushanbe, almost exactly half way around the world, we no longer see a unit of Soviet hegemony but a mysterious land of Persian heritage troubled by internal conflicts of a sort unimaginable when we initiated the relationship.

But the original reasons for becoming sister cities are just as valid now as ever: to get to know people very unlike ourselves and, through understanding, to make the world just a little bit better...

...and to have some fun on the road to understanding."

Cyber Café for Dushanbe Project



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